Your Dating Service Profile: What to Say in Your Dating Profile
Your profile for dating service websites will make or break your chances of meeting women. There’s absolutely NO way you’re ever going to meet someone if your profile is lousy. There are too many guys online with decent profiles and women are more receptive to them. It’s your way of telling women who you are, what you’re looking for, and what you have to offer them. There’s no other way of doing that because no woman is going to even give you an opportunity to chat if your profile is mediocre. It’s that important.
I’m not going to beat around the bush with this article. You already know where we stand on the importance of uploading quality photos. In fact, the pictures are what gets you in the door with women. The content is what keeps her interested and convinces her you’d be an interesting conversation. We’ve tested a lot of online dating service profile content strategies, and here is what works best…
- Being positive and mature. Complaining, whining, and insulting others is a HUGE turnoff. Women go for men that are positive in nature. Negative, crude men are annoying. Would you like to date a woman that complains all the time? Didn’t think so.
- Exuding confidence, not arrogance. Arrogance is when you brag about how awesome you are at everything. I don’t care if you really are the best at everything you do, nobody cares. Guys that brag are unappealing to women. They want a man that is proud of who he is and isn’t worried about what other people think. Confidence = sexy.
- Displaying a good sense of humor. Ask any woman and she’ll tell you that men they don’t initially find physically attractive can become attractive if they have an awesome sense of humor.
Out of the 20+ “Interests” and “Descriptions” Used, Here are the 3 that Got Women to Contact us the Most
Description 1: HELLO LADIES!! I’m looking for a woman that is looking for a man that knows how to treat a woman the way she DESERVES to be treated – emotionally and physically. If you enter into a relationship with me, I promise you’ll never have to call the Cops on me!
Description 2: I’ve met at least a dozen women on this site and made it to a second date exactly zero times. Despite that, I’m still here because I know the woman that’s going to give me a second chance to not screw things up is on here! Is that you?
Description 3: Have you ever woke up and thought, “it sure is easy to find Mr./Mrs. Right!”? Me either! However, I’m hoping that you are my Mrs. Right. If you’re smart, funny, and don’t mind dating a total smartass that has an unhealthy obsession with College Football, I’d love for you to message me!
Interests 1: Is this where I tell you I enjoy long walks on the beach? Have you ever actually gone for a long walk on the beach? Has anyone? I prefer RELAXING at the beach. And maybe staring at women in bikinis too! Oh, and I like sports!
Interests 2: I really just signed up for this site to get some advice on where to get a decent pizza nearby since I’m new to town. But if you really want to know, I like playing with my dog, shooting pool, and helping keep casinos in business!
Interests 3: They limit us to 1,000 character so I can’t do myself much justice here, but I will just say that I have more interests than the number of characters allowed. You name it, I’ll do it. If I’ve never heard of it, I’ll try it once. If I like it, I’ll try it twice. If I REALLY like it, I’ll end up getting addicted to it.