Basic Dating Service Strategy – Why Use More Than One Site
My goal with online dating has always been to meet as many women as possible. The reason I have this goal is because I know that’s the only way to find the “right” woman. Before getting started with online dating you need to understand the importance of playing the “Numbers Game”. What is the Numbers Game? It’s simply a matter of communicating with as many women as possible because it makes it more likely you’ll eventually meet the perfect girl.
With every woman you contact, you’re increasing your chances of finding that special someone. If you send out 5 emails, there is a chance you’ll end up marrying one of those 5 gals. However, it’s a VERY small chance. Now, let’s say you sent out 500 emails instead. I’m not going to guarantee you will end up marrying or in a long-term relationship with one of those 500, but you will sure as heck have a MUCH better chance than had you only sent out 5.
So, as you can tell, the more women you communicate with, the better your chances of finding someone are increased. You simply cannot expect to send out a few emails and get a date. It takes – on average – about 20 emails sent out (on a decent site) for every date you get. That’s assuming, of course, you’re sending strong emails to maximize your success on dating services sites. However, you must realize that you will only end up in a lasting relationship with 1 out of every 8-10 women you go out on a first date with. So you should expect to send out at least 200 emails before finding a long-term relationship – if you’re lucky. For most people, it will take 300-500 emails, if not more.
There Aren’t Enough Women on Just One Site to Send out 300-500 Emails…
Okay, that’s not completely true. There are enough women on almost any dating site, but not enough that are your type. Let’s go back to what I said about communicating with as many women as possible. You can’t do that if you’re only using one dating site. This is poor online dating service strategy. There are 5 legitimate online dating services…
There are tons of great women on each of those sites. However, you’d be hard pressed to find 300-500 women you are interested in on any of those sites. Using multiple dating services gives you access to more women than you could ever imagine. No matter how smooth and charming you are, you shouldn’t expect to turn every first date into a long-term relationship. It COULD happen, but it’s not to be expected.
I’m not trying to say you have no shot of meeting Mrs. Right on any of those sites without being a member of any others. But you’re limiting your potential. Play the numbers game. This will increase your exposure to more women, which will lead to better chances for finding the right one. Sure, it costs a bit more to sign-up for 2-3 dating sites. But it’s still cheaper than going out to the bars looking for women. And it’s more effective and convenient. If $30-$40 per month isn’t worth finally finding a decent woman to settle down with, I don’t know what is.