Ask what hurts a man’s pride the most and he’ll say it’s the thought of not being sexually sufficient in bed – unable to satisfy his partner. Men are hardwired to take the lead in bed, to know everything about what to do and how to do. His level of sexual know how puts him on a pedestal that obviously lets him win the hottest chicks in town. The more he knows the better for him and his sex life. Is learning the best bed tricks a rocket science? Of course not, however it takes time and continues practicing to learn and re-learn the tricks that can make a woman want more and more of sex with you.
Stay not just physically engaged, but psychologically engaged too
For a woman, a man’s passion for sex is just sexy. This is not to say that “passion” means engaging in tough and rough sex, but instead keeping in mind that you are with a woman that equally wants pleasure just like you. Therefore, being in the moment and knowing how to use your body to take and give pleasure makes you completely “engaged” and passionate. When a man is passionate the woman senses it and tends to give so much more and is also less restrictive.
Making foreplay equally important as the main event
A lot of women surprisingly reach orgasm during foreplay; this means that women like the pleasure they are getting from foreplay too. That said, you need to up your manual skills and know great timing on her hot buttons – a little more here, less of that there – in order to send her to pleasure land.
Respect women’s mindfulness
Yes, women are more mindful of safe sex than men. While both agree that sex without using a condom is far better than with condoms, it is the bugging thought of STDs that holds a woman back into complete comfort and sexual satisfaction. Her bodily response will not be as great even if you are doing the right things. So make her enjoy more by making her worry less. Do your part in keeping safe sex; it’s for your own good too.
Give her sensitive spots gentle care
This refers to her bud that needs gentle and not rough manipulations. Take it from her facial expressions and verbal sighs – whether you need to add or lessen the manual pressure. Giving her intense pressure on her bud that is packed with nerve endings will make her feel uncomfortable; her mind will start to wander until you lose her entirely. Instead, make indirect stimulations first beginning with her other erogenous zones and slowly build the intensity as you get to her happy spot. When you get there just in time, you’ll see that there will not be any sign of displeasure from the lady.
Positions of pleasure
Truth is, some sexual positions are just being done for the “show”; but as far as pleasure is concerned, women would rather stick to the classics. For missionary style, put a couple of pillows underneath her butt, creating an angle that is just right for a deeper penetration. Rock her with very sudden upward thrust as you lift your butt when doing the girl-on-top position. This thrust is sure to give her burst of intense pleasure. Care for some doggy style? Why not give her alternating short and shallow thrusts then long and deep ones. As you do this, wrap your arms around her to reach for her bud and give it some of your hand tricks.
G-spot- the great spot
Some men need to admit that the woman’s G-spot remains an undiscovered territory in their black book. Don’t be surprised, some women don’t even know where this is either. But men, you are free to explore the woman’s body to find this; bring a woman to a new level of sensual experience by showing her how this spot needs the most attention. If you are aware of this spot, then use it to your advantage. The more you please your lady right where she needs it the more she’ll be willing to please you too.
Don’t underestimate communication literally
This is not about talking dirty, excuse me. This is bits of whispers in her ears of just how she’s driving you wild and crazy. Words like “I’ve been dreaming about this moment for a long time” or “you just know how to please me” or “I’ll please you so wild you’ll never forget it”. Timing is crucial too; say these words when she or her body is at the most vulnerable, or when you’ve turned her on completely.
Mastering the art of making her want for more is more beneficial to you; women never forget who gave them great time, and they will lovingly return the favor that their men need to. The more you know the better supplied your sex life will be.