The Crazy Test: If You Answer Yes To More Than One Of These Questions, You’re Probably Dating A Nutcase
Dating is so much fun; you get to meet a lot of women. If you’re lucky enough, you too will end up in a blossoming relationship. But you know that simply meeting a woman on the first few dates will not guarantee that she’ll turn out to be the ideal girl for you, right? If you want to pursue a girl that you like in a relationship, there are things about her that you must carefully observe to make sure you don’t end up with chronic headache dealing with a she-devil or lady psychopath.
If the girl you’re currently seeing is acting a little bit weird one time then turn super sweet the next time, then you want to know what’s causing it. Could it be that you drive him crazy that’s why she acts that way or she is the one who’s crazy? You know that this is already becoming more of an issue when even your friends are starting to doubt that she’s normal. The signs that she’s neurotic can be quite obvious; it’s easy to spot, really. But one or two signs shouldn’t drive you to the roof right away; women tend to be “attention seeker” at the initial part of dating, they seem to always want to reassure themselves that they already “belong” to you (at least!) But nevertheless, knowing what signs to look for will save you from great trouble later on. And unless you’ve proven that she’s no nutcase then don’t take any step further.
Does she literally and constantly badmouth all her “exes”?
This is not just the incidental bad mouthing that is common to ex-lovers. This is an absolute defamation, an insult to his existence. She takes pride and joy in letting you or anyone know the sexual flaws of his exes, enough for you to feel sick to your stomach. Could she be making this up to feel superior against her exes? Considering also the kind of guys he went out with (equally neurotic), you won’t be surprised just how much they complement each other.
Does she keep your phone ringing all the time?
She does this relentlessly, as if you’ve permitted her to do so. She leaves voice messages on your phone saying the same things over and over again. When you finally let her get through her demandingly question you as to why you won’t take her calls or returning her calls.
Does she get into our circle without your knowledge?
This is very strange because as she does this, she tries her best to keep it to herself. She calls your mom regularly, run errands for your dad, buys gifts for your sister, constantly chats with your co-workers or even buys your best friend concert tickets. Obviously, she’s building an alliance that later on you will answer to when you are ready to get rid of her.
Does she has this wild mood swings?
Her mood swings make you think she’s some kind of a bipolar. You like how she treats you one time and then humiliate you in public with her rant the next. She’s so unpredictable that you worry how she’ll behave privately or in public. Seems like she couldn’t care less about being discrete; all she cares about is her outbursts.
Does she interrogate you constantly?
She does this quite professionally like you’re a CIA case. She enjoys snooping around our place, browsing through your things, checking out your wardrobe, going through your emails, or even hacking your private social networking accounts. Even if you are guilt-free for anything she might take against you, she’ll successfully find one to interrogate you with. So you’d better have a good alibi for whatever she may find.
Does she stalk?
She constantly checks out on you in any way possible. She shows up at work unannounced, she’s by your apartment door when you arrive home from work. You went to an event only to find out she’s there too. Any chance she’s got she’ll ask suspiciously who you are with and what you are doing or where you are going. She simply takes it that you are expected to let her know every single move you make. Sometimes she does this stalking lovingly; making it hard for you to get annoyed or irritated, but other times you just hate the way she blows up unreasonably.
Not because a chick is hot-looking you would go right ahead and pursue her. Paying close attention to some of these issues will help you uncover her neurotic side that you’d better stay as far away from as possible. But don’t judge hastily if you happen to see one or two signs, just take them as subtle hints. What is more important is how you feel when you are with her. Does she make you feel good or does she drive you nuts too?