Are you the guy who is afraid of break ups, a guy who will do anything just to keep your woman even after becoming the nice guy your girl still wants to leave you? Congrats, you’ve officially become a “wussy” – a guy who desperately needs other people’s attention, so bad enough that you’re willing to change your personality just to be accepted or loved. This is a pure sign of a weakling, a trait that no girl is attracted to.
A woman likes to be treated like a queen, but if you continue doing this to her, you will eventually become uninteresting, predictable, too accommodating and even a boring guy, which gives all the reason for your woman to become bossy or leave you.
It’s time to stop being a wuss and it’s about time to become a “man”. Here are 3 tips for you on how to be strong and confident and change your wuss – like attitude:
Forget about your looks and focus on your “personality”
If you think that a girl will go only for the good looking guy instead of the guy who has a good personality, you thought wrong. For girls, looks aren’t everything, it’s what’s inside that matters. On the other hand, it’s completely different for some guys, looks are more important. Women are more attracted to men who are dominant, outgoing, and adventurous.
If you are not a good-looking guy but makes up for it by having a good personality, don’t lose hope! A girl will look past your physical appearance and see if you have the personalities she likes in a guy. It is always important to just be yourself. Pretending to be someone you’re not will only make it difficult for you, because it’s hard to continuously “put on a show” for a girl who may be a master in knowing the difference between a liar and an honest guy.
Don’t force someone to be attracted to you: it’s not your choice to make
If you are a wuss, you may unknowingly be forcing your girl to stay by your side and love you. That is a hard thing to do, because to stay attracted to you is not your choice to make. You cannot force someone to love you even if you are nice, accommodating and understanding. These qualities are only good for social relationships and will not attract the object of your desire. If you are in a position wherein you beg for a girl’s affection it will only make matters worse, it is better if you just stop it. If she wants to leave you then just let her go. Always be positive and don’t forget that there is a reason why a person doesn’t want you, in this case, she just doesn’t find your personality quite attractive. Just accept the fact that she is not the girl for you.
Girls constantly test their guys if it is really needed
There are certain reasons why guys and girls hide their negative traits and only show their good side; obviously, the negative traits are unattractive. Keeping your negative side will only make it hard for a relationship to grow. If you want to pursue a person into a lasting relationship, you want to make sure she can accept even your negative qualities; and if this will affect your relationship, be willing to change them.
It is easy to say that you love someone but it is very hard to express it. If a girl feels an intimate connection with you, she needs to test if you feel the same way too. A girl will know if you feel the same connection if you can handle her emotions and problems maturely. However, a girl doesn’t want a problem solver, she needs a guy who is confident enough to listen to her and talk about her feelings, which will cause her to want you so bad and give her the enough reason to stay with you.
You must have the confidence on how to handle a relationship because she will eventually test you if have the guts to do it. Show her that you have the “balls” in the relationship and not the other way around. If you want to have a successful love life, remove your wuss – like attitude. A girl likes to be treated like a queen, no doubt, about that but she doesn’t want a jester or a boy wherein she can push you around or who do what she says. She wants a guy who has unwavering confidence, a mature mindset and always keeps her guessing with his creative yet romantic unpredictability. Stop treating yourself like a wuss and start being the real guy for your girl.