There’s never a guarantee you will get a second date. But the best way to increase your chances of hearing from her again is to impress her with your ability to hold an interesting conversation. Women love a man with personality. Show her you’re fun to be around by entertaining her with your chatter. There are many topics to avoid discussing on a date – politics, religion, past relationships, etc. Those will turn her off and assure you of never hearing from her again. But if you want to get a call back from her, stick to these general topic pointers…
Future Goals: Where You Want to Be in 5, 10, 20 Years… and How You’ll Get There
Part of the way women select a man is based on his potential. She’ll want to know what you plan on doing with the rest of your life. I don’t know any women that would even consider being with a guy that has no motivation or a plan for the future. Tell her what you expect your career path to be. And let her know your plans on how you’re going to achieve your goals.
Favorite Sports Teams: Don’t Be Afraid to Talk a Little Trash!
The best way to flirt with a woman is to tease her. And what better way than to crack harmless jokes about her favorite sports teams (unless you also root for those teams, of course). I love teasing a woman that supports teams I don’t like. I always keep the smack talk non-offensive and don’t take it too far. Just a little light, humorous trash talk and nothing more.
Her Hobbies and Interests: Pretend Like You Care Even if You Don’t
Women like to talk about things they’re interested and not necessarily the things you’re interested in. They also like it when a man pays attention to what they have to say and acts interested. Hopefully you’ve already read her profile a dozen times so you know what she’s into. When talking about hobbies and interests, stick mostly to the things she’s into. If it’s also a common interest, that’s great because you can speak more intelligently about it. But even if you don’t know a darn thing about it, act interested when she’s discussing the hobby/activity.
Jokes: Non-offensive, but Highly Comical
Making a woman laugh has never decreased a man’s chance of getting another date. There isn’t a woman alive that doesn’t desire a man with a sense of humor. Don’t try too hard to impress her with your jokes. And don’t turn everything into a joke. That would completely backfire on you. Instead, pick your spots and crack a non-offensive joke that you know will get her to laugh.