Isn’t it that when you like a girl, you’ll find ways to show her just that? In a way you speak or act, you’ll give away subtle hints in the hope that she’ll respond favorably to those “hints”. In much the same way, you want to decipher every single thing this girl says or do to prove to yourself that she likes you too. And why not? If you already know she likes you too, it will somehow ease your burden or pressure in trying to win her – her hot buttons are already exposed! Meanwhile, you can focus more on the “things” she likes about you, being too careful not to do just the opposite or miss out your chances with her.
Here are just some of the usual signs that say she’s into you.
She says yes to all your invitations
Be this an online chat, a simple burger dinner, a weekend run or a lame can-you-help-me-get-a-gift-for-mom kind of thing. She’s just willing and able every single time. If at first she’s not, you’ll be surprised that she’ll work her schedules out just for you. Take this as her way of wanting to “spend time with you”.
She makes it “very” easy for you to contact her
She gives you all her contact information shamelessly like cell phone, email, chat username, Skype, Facebook, LinkedIn and what have you. At best, she makes it easier to contact her by making her availability so predictable for you. Call her on her cell phone on her way to work in the morning between 8am to 9am. Then chat with her during lunch breaks. You may do Skype together around 4pm when her work load is much lighter by this time. See what I mean?
“Oh, we’ve heard so much about you!”
These words are starting to become music to your ears whenever you’re introduced to her parents, aunts and uncles, best friend or even co-workers. You wonder sometimes just how much she’s saying about you – all good you hope! Better make sure you justify her good claims about you.
She subtly flirts with you with light touches here and there
Are you already getting physically comfortable when you’re together? Two people who obviously like each other enjoy as much less space between them – skin rubs from time to time. Whether they’re intentional or not, you got to admit that you like the feeling. So if she makes “cute” efforts touch you like a light pat on your back, your arm for support, or a light touch on your cheek to take something out of there, take it as your cue and just smile.
It may be too unconventional but yes, she plays the “mind game”
Girls like to act coy sometimes; they like to see just how much persuasive a guy would get them to win over. You may start to notice her playing mind games with you and trying to play hard to get. Don’t take this negatively. A girl will always be a girl; in essence they like the feeling of being “courted” even only to some extent. When it comes down to this, just show her your chivalry and make her feel like a real lady.
She’s getting prettier and prettier by the day
You can very much say that she looks different from the time you first hooked up with her up to the present. Whenever you go out even on casual get together, you can’t help but notice her “polished” look. You find nothing wrong with that because she’s becoming a total eye candy and you love it! But you better make her efforts count by giving her lovely complement all the time. You sure don’t want her to prettify herself for someone else instead, right?
She supports your view and opinions
She does this not because she’s too dumb to stand by her own, but because she thinks you’re wise enough to make your own point. When she feels something you said needs correcting, she does this discreetly so as not to hurt your feelings. What is important is she doesn’t come as confrontational or argumentative. She allows your conversation to take its natural course without letting it end on a sour note. Very good for you then, you’ve found yourself a girl who respects you as you are and is not threatened by your independent mind.
Still not convinced? Getting hints if a girl likes you is really a walk in the park. Given how girls these days are bold in their talks and walks, it’s no surprise that in a very short while she’ll frankly tell you how she feels. Meanwhile, just take her cues and just ride along. You’ve got nothing to lose anyway.