There’s nothing that irritates me more than to hear how arrogant jerks get beautiful girls. They don’t get chicks – they get sex. REAL women don’t date arrogant pricks. Women that haven’t matured beyond their High School years go for these guys because they’re dumb enough to actually think they can change him. A woman that’s just looking for a one-night stand because she’s drunk and horny will let an arrogant guy into her bed, but she’ll never enter into a relationship with him.
On the other hand, men that are confident and secure are considered sexy to every woman. Having a little confidence will help offset your lack of natural great looks (if you lack them). I see attractive women with great personalities with men most women wouldn’t consider attractive. Why is that? Because those guys are confident, but not arrogant. They know they aren’t the best looking guy in the world, but they’re confident in who they are. They’re not afraid to go after attractive women because they believe they have something to offer a woman. And, no, I’m not talking about money.
Confidence Versus Arrogance
Confident Guy: Starts a conversation with a woman that’s way out of his league physically.
Arrogant Guy: Brags to a woman he just met about how sexy he is.
Confident Guy: Creates an online dating profile that is upbeat and proudly mentions what he does for a living and in his free time.
Arrogant Guy: Lists his accomplishments – which are usually unimpressive – and insult others.
Confident Guy: Speaks highly of others and compliments them for helping him become the man he is today.
Arrogant Guy: Credits nobody for his success and brags about how he never fails because he’s so awesome.
Confidence is a Combination of Body Language and Conversation
The next time you’re in a bar, pay attention to the guys that get the chicks. Look at their posture. You’ll notice them standing up straight and looking women in the eyes. This is a sign that he’s confident. When you’re out on a date, sit up straight, keep eye contact with her and smile. This will show her you’re confident and not shy. As far as conversation, smile when you talk. Speak highly of yourself without bragging. Don’t be negative. Negative guys lack confidence.