I realize that we all look for something different in a woman. Personally, I go for the taller brunettes with a great sense of humor. So I’ll stalk out the pretty brunettes online that appear to have something funny to say in their profile. For example, I once went on a date with this girl ‘Shannon’. The reason I was interested in contacting her was because her profile had everything I was looking for in a woman. Dark hair, gorgeous eyes, great body, her profile made me laugh, and she appeared to have her act together.
I went on a date with Shannon about a week after I emailed her. She was just as amazing in person. Unfortunately, the relationship never lasted. She ended up getting a job about 500 miles away that she couldn’t pass up. But if I were to describe my “perfect” woman, it would be her. She’s married now and has a kid, but I email her pretty much every day. She’s great conversation. It’s just a shame she had to move so far away. Why am I telling you this story? Because I want to show you how important it is to seek out the “right” woman based on the character traits you desire in a partner. I don’t know specifically what type of women you like, but I can help you figure out from her profile if you’d be a match…
Content that makes you laugh/smile
I may not know the specific type of woman you’re into, but I’ve never met a single person that didn’t desire a partner with a sense of humor. Take a look at what she says in her profile. Is it all negative? Is there a bunch of comments about how she’s fed up with the idiots she meets? Or is it more upbeat and somewhat humorous? Go after the women with content in their profile that makes you smile, not cringe. You don’t want to deal with a negative woman. She’ll be a pain in the ass and she’ll never trust you. Go for women that don’t appear to have any baggage.
Her picture doesn’t make you want to vomit
Again, I don’t know what you’re attracted to. But I can assure you that if you don’t like what you see in her photo, you’ll never have a happy relationship. Do you want to wake up every day to a woman that disgusts you? Do you want to fantasize about having sex with someone else while you’re sleeping with her? Probably not. I’m not suggesting you be a shallow prick and only go for the hotties. But there has to be some physical attraction or you won’t have a happy relationship.
You’re on her level
Women go for men that are on their level in some way. If she’s a 10 and you’re a 5, you have to make up for it by having a better job than her or an amazing personality. It’s very important to only go after women that are on your level. You have to offer as much in a relationship (or more) as she does. If, by chance, you end up with a woman that’s WAY above you, the relationship won’t last or she’ll push you around. If she lists an occupation that likely pays $50,000 per year more than you and she’s way better looking than you are, you should probably move on to someone else.