I thought it would be fun and informative to write a post about the truths about women on dating service websites. There are a lot of assumptions made about women online. Some are true. Some are not. So here are 3 truths and myths about women on dating service websites…
Fact or Fiction: Personality is all that matters to women online?
It seems that half of the so-called experts claim that personality is all that matters to women online. The other half claims that looks are very important. So what do women really go for online? It’s a combination of both, depending on the woman. Shallow women will never admit this, but they only go for looks. They might claim to go for personality, but the truth is they only care about looks and base a man’s personality off of his looks.
However, the majority of women online actually cares about personality more. But in order for her to even give your personality a shot, she’s going to have to be impressed with your picture. So, yes, looks do matter and no it’s not true that personality is all that matters to women. Does that mean average (or below average) guys are screwed? Absolutely not. It just means they have to work harder to take a good picture.
Fact or Fiction: The majority of the women on dating services will NOT put out on a first date?
Only a small percentage of women on dating service websites end up putting out on a first date. But, that’s mostly because of 2 reasons…
Guys don’t know they’re willing to give it up, OR…
The guy screws things up on the date so she’s not into him
I’d estimate that 60% of women online will put out if the guy makes a move and she’s into him. Your chances of getting laid are based mostly on how you “perform” on the date. Never assume she won’t put out. Don’t get me wrong, you shouldn’t push her to have sex. Just subtly make a move on her and offer to go back to your place to “cuddle and watch movies”.
Fact or Fiction: Attractive women have dozens of men contacting them every day?
You may not realize this, but very attractive women don’t get hit on in bars as much as you might think. That’s because they intimidate guys. Only the most confident men approach them. But what about online? The answer is they receive an insane amount of messages each day. It’s less intimidating online to “approach” a woman since you’re not face-to-face. So if you find a stunningly beautiful girl online, you should know you won’t be the only one contacting her.