The memory of the first kiss. Isn’t it that the “first kiss” is considered as a relationship milestone in everyone’s life? Whether that experience was good or bad, no one really forgets the first kiss. And so your time has come to make a memory and most likely with a girl that you really like. As a guy, you have a reputation to build here, you don’t want words to spread around that you’re a bad kisser, more so if you have portrayed that “popularity image” with the girls. And quite frankly you’re anxious as ever. That’s ok, every guy goes through the same thing – but no one has to know. So long as you do your homework and prepare for the big day then you have nothing to worry about.
Let me give you the rules for a great and memorable first kiss. This is not a how-to list because I believe that the kiss will come spontaneously. What is more important is you “the kisser” and how well you prepare for it. After this you’ll understand what I mean.
Bad breath is a complete turn off!
Just talk to a pretty girl with unbelievably bad breath and just imagine yourself kissing her. You can’t, right? Because you know already that bad breath means unhealthy mouth, maybe an infection is going on in there, so who do you expect would want to explore that mouth? If you smoke a lot, you might want to give your mouth a break, because smoking dries your mouth and dry mouth lead to bad breath. Chew a gum frequently to help in salivating – this is like washing the insides of your mouth. Floss nightly, keep your tongue clean and always gargle with a good mouth wash.
Keep your lips looking inviting
Seductive lips are not just for girls, they’re for guys too. Our lips dry too easily, often by the cold weather. If you leave it like that, the topmost skin will flake off, making your lips too rough for long, locked keys. With a kiss, couples like to lick and play with the lips; surely you don’t want to miss out on this. Keep your lips smooth and moist by moisturizing them with petroleum jelly at bedtime then in the morning lightly scrub with washcloth to take off the dry skin.
Don’t underestimate your face
What this means is don’t just focus on preparing your tool for the kiss, your face also needs some prepping too. We want to make sure it’s nice to look at. Keep your face clean. If you have bumps all over especially along the lines of your mouth or on the chin, then you need to regularly medicate that. Keep your face grease-free too; you’ll have lots of faces rubbing during the kiss so you don’t want the girl to keep backing off because she hates the grease on your face. Then if you are already growing facial hairs, make sure they are out of the way too. Shave those hairs clean and smooth. Facial hairs are just annoying!
Please the olfactory nerves
Of course, this too needs pleasing. Make sure your clothes smell fresh and clean as well as your skin too! Make sure you do not smell like sweat as most first kissers do. And don’t mask a sweat with an overpowering perfume. That too wouldn’t be appealing. Instead get a perfume that’s age appropriate and sexy. And just because it smells good doesn’t mean you’ll shower in it. Put some in your hands, rub together and dab palms lightly on your neck, jaw lines and wipe the rest on your shirt.
Maintain eye contact
We’re almost there! Make the eye contact signals that you’re inviting the girl for a kiss. Make your eyes smile, this will show the excitement building up and you’ll see that her eyes will show excitement too. Then lightly shift your gaze to her lips. When you do this, she will notice and will start to prepare herself. If you see her starting to lick her lips lightly, then take it as your cue.
Go for it!
Relax. Keep your composure, smile and plant that kiss. Don’t get too excited that you’re plunging in too hurriedly. Let the kiss take its natural course. Be sensitive to your partner’s comfort level by not overdoing it. Give the kiss tiny breaks; this will give you the opportunity to check your progress. If everything goes well as it should be, then go right ahead again with pleasure. Enjoy the moment.
You should be getting it now that the “preparation” for the kiss is as important as the kiss itself. You’ve got to satisfy the senses first to “create” the mood. Didn’t good sex require some foreplay too—so why not a good kiss? If you’d think about it, these are your deal maker or deal breaker. So never underestimate these “rules”.